To all the readers of carbon paper, Christmas and 'close!
Tradition has it that this is an opportunity for everyone to be more 'good for
groped to understand and love each other. Opportunity for dialogue.
Because despite everything I believe in dialogue, let me share with you this reflection, which can 'be considered a little' feel-good, but I really like it because 'the ability' to maintain an open dialogue with the people to whom we are linked and ' something that affects the life .. often gets lost (the box) and do not even realize there ... so happens, 'and then spend months, years, and wrapped us realize that we no longer speak' those people with really long time.
here is a series of maxims and thoughts that struck me ... enjoy:
Confidence fuels the conversation intelligence.
(de la Rochefoucauld)
Dialogue is the main instrument of union. If there is real communication between individuals, between groups and even between nations, there is no problem that can not be resolved.
The tragedy of today's world, and even our own lives, is the lack of real communication. The key word is just the word "real." True dialogue is the encounter of two souls, and it is always fruitful in itself. This making it rich is the continuing attempt to come out of themselves and become other things, consider a review that could oppose, the angle of those who propose it. Being anxious to see how things are for each other, as an opinion that I refuse to have a sense of respect for a person who is true dialogue.
E 'need not be afraid to be convinced by the other person, having to change my opinion, do not listen only to education or, worse, preparing my arguments while he speaks, so as to counter just ended. I limit myself to listen to welcoming all the new ideas let me hit, allowing another to prove to me.
Dialogue is the breath of life together and must continue if we remain united. It is not meant to make uniform, but because we accept the differences. The dialogue will not give us a common policy, but to teach us to make less. Dialogue is the food of the pluralism that is growth and not evil. Only through dialogue
true I can really open up the interior riches of others, it instructs, it makes me grow and mature, make me a better person because it makes me careful, sensitive, free to share with others and humble in request, ready to learn and confident in opening another. No wonder then, that the obstacles are many. The lack of time, haste, timidity, laziness, comfortable superficiality of our discourse. And then, the fear. The fear of opening up, to take seriously the other, that everyone has something to teach me that my beliefs and my world go to pieces in a crisis and why not so strong and true. The fear of having to change myself and my behavior. It 's a challenge but you must do if you really want to love, if you really want to have real friends, if you really want to live and not simply exist.
If only took us to speak directly with others as much time and energy we devote to talking about them, the dialogue would flourish in our midst and our relationships with others would be easier and richer.
and conclude with an observation of mine,
in my life there have been many times when I decided to stop talking.
The most 'of the time,' was 'cause I realized first that I was not the most' listened to. Often, perhaps because of my way to do a little 'arrogant ...
At times I have been unfairly pushed aside because of jealousy and I have not forgiven ...
Other times my self-respect ...
Or 'cause I could not bear the weight of a sick person.
And yet, even for rational reasons deltutto ...
I must say that belonging to have suffered in many, if not all, cases retrospectively am convinced that I acted only to defend myself and never to harm, and I've always been consistent with myself. Fattosta 'that there are people I still very well and who do not speak' cause looks to grow, people I very well that I can not speak and people who love you so much that I do not speak more '... For a
I would say that I'm 'looking for the strength inside me but I'm sure I'll find' ... I could be light, I would, but I have too much respect for and treat you like you deserve to know that they suffer ... one day I'll be a man 'and will change' everything in the meantime, though I know 'who do not read me, know that I have not forgotten.
The other I would say ... I do not know '.. judge me as you want, but if we look inside we find that we've all had our reasons. It remains that, at least I will not forget you '..
Kisses to all readers e.. buoooon Christmas! hohoho: D
